How many days have we been together?

From your first day to your hundredth and beyond, or the days since you started again.

Where are you now?
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You've been together for
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Counting your days together

Couples count days the way you count days of a trip: the first day is day 1. So the 100th day together comes 99 days after the day it all started. It is a small celebration in Korea, Japan and Vietnam, and more and more couples everywhere mark 100, 200, 500 and 1,000 days.

Day N = start date + (N − 1) days.
Started onDay 100Day 365Day 1,000
Jan 1, 2026Apr 10, 2026Dec 31, 2026Sep 26, 2028
Feb 14, 2024May 23, 2024Feb 12, 2025Nov 9, 2026

Married: anniversaries by year

Choose Married and the counter switches to years, with the traditional gift for each anniversary: paper for the first, wood for the fifth, tin for the tenth, silver for the 25th, gold for the 50th. Your next one is highlighted with its date and how many days are left.

Broke up, divorced, no contact

Sometimes the days worth counting are the ones since something ended. Choose Broke up, Divorced or No contact and the counter starts from the end date instead, in a calmer colour, with milestones at 7, 30, 90, 100 and 365 days. Share cards in this mode talk about you ("Day 101 of moving on"), never the other person.

Hard days are part of it. If you need to talk to someone, reach out to people you trust or, in the US, call or text 988 any time.

What people ask next

How we calculate

Together / married: day number = today − start date + 1 (your first day is day 1). Broke up / divorced / no contact: days since = today − end date.

  • Milestone dates are computed in your local calendar.
  • Names are optional and stay on your device.

Every formula is checked by automated tests. Methodology · Updated

Questions people ask

How do couples count 100 days together?

Most couples count the first day as day 1, so day 100 is 99 days after the day you got together. Started on January 1? Day 100 is April 10.

What are the traditional anniversary gifts by year?

1 Paper, 2 Cotton, 3 Leather, 5 Wood, 10 Tin, 15 Crystal, 20 China, 25 Silver, 30 Pearl, 40 Ruby, 50 Gold, 60 Diamond. Choose Married to see yours with dates.

Why count days since a breakup?

Many people find that watching the number grow is a gentle way to notice progress. The counter only counts; it never shows the other person's name on a card unless you add it.

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